It is hard to put into words how incredibly grateful we are for you and are aware of the indescribably difficult choice you have to make. We have so much respect and empathy for you knowing that, for as happy and hopeful of a time it would be for us having your child join our family, that you would be feeling sadness and frustration. We honor that and will never forget it. Your child would forever be our greatest gift and your greatest sacrifice.
The gift of your child to us will ensure a future for them full of love, stability, and peace. They will have a home that is forever safe and welcoming. We will rock your baby to sleep in their room whispering to them how loved and cherished they are, play with them in the grass at the park while reminding them how special they are and send them off to school with a full belly and lots of hugs and kisses. Milestones both big and small will be celebrated with dance parties and cake and ice cream. Hard days will be met with grace and understanding and lots of snuggles. Not a day will pass that your child will not know how wanted they are and how thankful we are for adoption. We will speak of you with the highest respect and adoration and tell your child about you and how they came into our lives as the ultimate gift one person can make to another.
While we have always been open to the idea of adoption, we never considered that it could be our only path to becoming parents. Over the last 6+ years we have struggled with the loss of two pregnancies and multiple unsuccessful rounds of fertility treatment, and have come to the realization that we may never become biological parents. Through this process, we find ourselves here today, grateful, excited, hopeful, and blessed for you to consider us to become parents to your child.
We will ensure that your child’s life will be full of nurturing and stability as well as experiences and growth. By choosing us, you can be confident that your child will be surrounded by so much love from us as well as from family and friends. We are open to finding a path forward that allows for you to remain updated to your child’s growth, milestones, and achievements.
With warmest regards
Nina and Scott