I have so much gratitude and respect for your consideration in this extremely significant moment of your life. I hope you know what a brave choice it is to make an adoption plan and I am proud to be the family you are considering. Although I do not know the circumstances of your situation at this moment, I do understand there are a lot of hard choices you have to make. If my profile helps you feel at ease then perhaps we are a good fit for each other.
I come from an extremely loving, close and supportive family. I know what it is to have unconditional love from parents and that is what I am here to offer your child – unconditional love, unwavering support and unlimited encouragement to live their best life. The love my parents gave me has given me the confidence to know that in life, I am part of a family unit, always loved and no matter what the circumstances are, I will be supported. That feeling of security and confidence is something I will continue in my family. I have a song with my parents – “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough.” Do you know it? “ Ain’t no mountain high enough…Nothing will keep me, keep me from you…” I am totally stealing that theme song for my family song too.
Your baby’s life will be enriched by my family. Although my mother lives about 2 hours away now, by the time a kiddo comes into the picture, she will be closer and part of our daily/weekly routines. My brother, Uval and his family live New Mexico and (Pre-COVID) I see them every few months and Facetime with my nephews Max and Henry regularly in between. It’s good to see my brother & his wife, Heather, but Max and Henry are the stars of the show! I love my nephews so much. When they were born I just could not imagine loving anyone more than them… I cannot wait to see what having a child will feel like. I will probably explode with such joy, I will see a million hearts everywhere and maybe rainbows or unicorns will appear!
I am an eternal optimist… my path to adoption has not been easy, but I believe in my heart this is the path I am meant to be on… I froze my eggs when I was 37 because I was diagnosed with breast cancer and was about to undergo chemotherapy. I say that to you knowing I am 100% in the clear of cancer and it will not affect my ability or life expectancy to be a parent. I beat the crap out of cancer! It was not easy, but I look back with gratitude for my doctors, the medical care I received and life lessons I learned. I learned to ask for help and I learned to say no when it was what was best for me to say no. I learned this too will pass and not to stress over the small stuff. These are all life lessons that will help make me a better, more understanding parent… Once I was ready to utilize my frozen eggs, I tried twice but miscarried both times. It was not meant to be… So my path has led me to adoption. I believe everything happens for a reason and if that is a truth I believe in, I have to believe in both the good times and the bad. With the help of a gracious woman like yourself, I will find my joy, my love and family.
I love that most adoptions are open these days. I want your child to know the gift you shared when you chose me. It will be the greatest gift anyone has ever or will ever give me in my whole life and I will forever be thankful. I want to create a life book, and if you are open to it, I would love to include pictures of you and I would love one picture of the three of us together to show your little one they are loved and this choice was made with love and understanding on all sides. I am open to discussing a relationship that works best for everyone involved as long as it enriches the life of the child.
I really do appreciate your time reading my profile and your consideration of me as your potential match. I wish you nothing but the best in life.