I would like to start off by saying I cannot begin to understand what you are going through and I can never express how heroic and courageous I believe you are for choosing the path of adoption for your child. This cannot be an easy choice, but it is my sincere wish to let you know I am here to help make it a little easier.
How can I do that you may ask? Well by assuring you that if I am lucky and blessed enough to be chosen as the forever home for your child, that they will be loved beyond measure. Your child will be entering a home that is filled with love and laughter. One that values family and friends, togetherness and being thoughtful and kind. I will be their champion, an ear for all of their troubles, their friend, spiritual guide and their teacher. I will love them unconditionally.
I have always wanted to be a father, for as long as I can remember. Being around children has been such a huge part of my life; whether it’s babysitting my friends' kids, moving to another state for over a month to care for my best friend’s newborn baby while he and his wife were training for a job, or babysitting for and spending time with my nieces and nephews. My desire to have a child and become a father has grown.
I want to be able to show your child the love that I was shown growing up. I was always close with my family and that is something that has not changed. My family is medium-large, I have four siblings, one blood brother and three step. I also have three nephews and two nieces, all who are very excited to meet your little one and have as new baby cousin to play with.
While most of us all live in different states, we make it a point to see each other many times a year, especially at Christmas when we are always all together. We all get along and have a deep bond/love that transcends distance. They all are excited to meet your young one and welcome them into our family.
I have friends who are as close as family to me, and their kids call me uncle. I enjoy spending time with them, and they are also excited for there to be a little one around to shower with love and to play with. We love to play board games together and have a tradition of going to Walt Disney World every 2-3 years. Something I cannot wait to share with your child.
I am a self-styled nerd who not only loves Star Wars, everything Disney and Marvel, but who also loves nature and a good trip to Target. On weekends you will find me watching a church service online, hiking or taking long walks followed by a trip to Target and then home to cook a nice diner and or bake. I like to curl up with a good book, reading is a passion of mine, or playing some old school video games, Super Mario anyone?!!? In the summer I am often found at the pool. These are all things I would love to be able to share with your child.
I live in a safe, quiet, family friendly neighborhood. It is a new complex surrounded by trees and nature, yet close enough to the city to enjoy the culture and all it has to offer. There are fields, playgrounds within walking distance and so much more.
In closure, from the depths of my heart, I want to thank you for taking the time to read this letter and for getting to know a small part of me. I know you have read or will read many profiles, but I believe you chose this one for a reason. I have a lot of love to share and would love to be able to share it with your child. Thank you for considering me.