Dear Expectant Mother,
Neither of us can comprehend what an emotional decision this must be for you, but we’d like to genuinely acknowledge your strength and courage. What’s clear is that this is a life changing choice for you, your family, your child, and us. Life is undoubtedly uncertain and from experience we know how painful choices can be. What we can say for certain is that you will always be your child’s mother, nothing can ever take that away and we promise your child will always know you and your loved ones. We want you to be as involved in your child’s life as much as you want, and we promise to always be open and honest with you every step of the way. You are entrusting the two of us to raise your child and that is a commitment that will bond us for the rest of our lives.
We will bring your child up surrounded by love and we promise to instill values of kindness, empathy, and responsibility. Life experiences have taught the two of us to appreciate every moment and the life we’ve built together is ready to be shared with you and your child. We will do everything in our power to keep your child safe and healthy. The importance of education will be encouraged while fostering creative developments and individual growth. Our support system is large and, because of this, your child will be exposed to different cultures and experiences while being surrounded by a diverse group of positive role models. We will lead by example and will promote a safe and nurturing environment with compassion and understanding at the core of our growing family.
Love is what will bind us together and we have so much to give. We want you to know that you are just as important as we are in this journey and, together, we will collectively do whatever is best to raise your child. We share a strong bond and are both open and committed to one another. We value communication and open dialogue and can promise that your child will be raised in a home free of negativity and neglect. In their own ways our parents gave us the skills necessary to be nurturing parents and we are confident in our ability to raise a well-rounded child. We promise your child will only know love, and as they grow we will provide guidance that comes from a place of experience. Life is not easy, and challenges will certainly arise, but our own life experiences have given us the tools necessary to face these challenges head on, together.
You are loved and we want you to know we will be here for you as much as you need. We will provide a safe space for you to see your child grow and you will have an opportunity to be involved as much as you desire. Family is the most important thing to us both and you will forever be a part of ours. They say, “It takes a village” and we are firm believers in that. In the darkest of days we hope you know you are not alone and no matter how many miles may separate us, we hope you will take comfort in knowing how much love we will have for you. Our only job will be to ensure the wellbeing of your child, and we promise that not a day will go by where we won’t tell them how loved they are, not only by us, but by you. From the deepest of our hearts, thank you for your courage, you alone are making this possible.
With all of our love,
Adam & Clyant