Dear Expectant Mother,
We want to start by thanking you for considering such a brave decision. Your selfless decision is making our entire world complete. We will forever be grateful to you. We can assure you that your baby will receive the most unconditional love and support from our family. Your baby will have the most dedicated mother, the most loving and involved father, and the most supportive and helpful big sister there ever was.
Your baby’s future is bright, and the possibilities are endless. There will be sports, concerts, vacations, school events, trips up north to visit family in the redwoods and so much more. Every child is different, and we look forward to finding out what makes your child so special. We will focus on their strengths, we will explore every interest, and we will teach compassion and empathy. We will raise your child to be the strongest and healthiest person they can be. We will always remind your child of how brave and selfless you are. Without you, we wouldn’t have them.
We want to assure you that we are in this wholeheartedly. We will be that stable, loving, comfortable and reliable constant for your child. We will remain all of those things while embracing the downs, the scraped knees, the temper tantrums, the school work, and the heartbreaks. Our jobs as parents will never be over and we will give our all throughout our time. Our families are loud, crazy, and little bit unconventional but full of love and laughter and it something worth sharing.
Our journey of getting to this place in our lives has been some of the greatest of times and some of the saddest times. Going through infertility has been an experience we wish nobody would have to go through. Our family is so much stronger and closer than it’s even been. Our excitement in adding an additional member to our family is beyond measure.
We want to do our part in helping you heal and feel at peace with your decision. We want to share photos if you want to see photos, we want to send or receive cards if you want to send or receive cards. Our hearts are just as open as our minds are and we want everyone to feel just how appreciated they really are. We have everything to offer a child and we have so much unconditional love to give. Our family has been put to the test and we came out stronger than ever and we can take on anything that is thrown our way.
Thank you for taking the time to get to know us a little bit, we hope to move forward and establish a genuine connection. We all share one goal, and that is the happiness and health of your child.
Justine and Nick