Dear Expectant Mother,
Words cannot express how immensely grateful we are for the priceless gift you are considering to share with us! We can only imagine how hard the decision must have been for you to place your baby for adoption and we are filled with admiration for your selflessness and courage in making this choice. However, it cannot be easy, and we sympathize with the pain this must cause you. We promise to you that we will raise your child in the most loving, supportive, safe and financially secure home we can provide. Your baby will never be deprived of love, care or opportunities, and will always have our support, no matter who they grow up to be or what they want to do in life. Our families prioritized our education above all else, which is why we have been successful in life. Shubham’s mother is a famous Indian classical singer and Dekila’s grandfather was a great Tibetan artist. Your child will always have the best education opportunities, including music and art classes. Since Shubham loves to play sports, we can confidently throw team sports into this mix as well!
Both of us come from humble backgrounds and have experienced challenging circumstances in our life. We know what it feels like to sacrifice and to struggle to achieve our goals. It makes us appreciate each and every day we have together and we long to share the blessings we have received with a child. Once we knew we were embarking on this journey to adopt a child, we decided to leave California and move to a town in Wisconsin that is famous for their close community life, vibrant arts and music, and popular college sports, because of our strong network of friends here. Both of us have job flexibility and can work from home a couple of days a week. Dekila runs an award-winning initiative and Shubham works in the IT business sector. We have several close family friends who live within five minutes of us. Shubham’s mother travels from India for up to six months every year and is looking forward to becoming a grandmother very much. Your baby will grow up being serenaded to by a professional singer. They will learn to speak several languages and will play with children from all parts of the world. They will attend a national, award-winning elementary school, and when they are older, they will travel to other countries with us. They will always have a dog to call a best friend and will spend their summers and autumns picking berries from their own back yard and hiking and kayaking in the nearby lakes.
We pray for your happiness and wellbeing and hope that only wonderful things come your way. We promise to tell your baby as they grow up how lucky they are to have a birth mom who loves them so much that she prioritized their happiness and wellbeing first. We will reassure your child that you went searching to find us specially for them and remind them always that you have an enormous amount of heart, spirit and courage, and we hope they inherit these qualities from you.
Dekila & Shubham